9 errors makes you always fail

"Failure," is the concerns that stress all of us, and undesirable element in all aspects of our lives, but the truth is that the nature of life cannot be without it, the important thing is how can you avoid it?

Dr. Carol Morgan, author of the book "Change your thinking, change your life” talked about 9 common mistakes that definitely lead to failure, and how to avoid them . The following points are a summary:

1- You do not know the real value of yourself

Many people underestimate their selves, believe that are "less than" other people, and this in fact impractical thinking. No one’s perfect each of us has strengths and weaknesses, and if you do not know the value of yourself and your talents, you will not be able to give it to the world. Therefore you are grievance yourself with your negative thinking.  

2 - Looking for what you want and not what you need

We all know very well what we want, but not all of us aware of what we really need; this is called "self-discipline", that the balance between what you prefer and what is necessary for you.

3 - If you are chasing perfection

Perfection is a fairy tale; there is no human being without mistakes, so we have to stop the prosecution of this idea.  Instead chase the idea of ​​"happiness", if you're chasing something unattainable like perfection, you will not be happy or successful.

4 - Blame others for your failure in life

If you're the type who always blames others for the lack of success, then you need to stop it. Look in the mirror, the person who is in front of you is the only one who can make you succeed or fail, only you can change your life.

5 - Always waiting for others Compliment

There is no doubt that we are all seeking to be socially acceptable, but always waiting for others to assess you  , and the level of their appraisal is a standard of your success ,by doing this you are looking at the failure itself ! You must have a subjective criterion to evaluate yourself, which suits with your present circumstances, and what you expect from yourself.

6 - Fear of failure

There is a difference between caution and fear of taking initiative or a new step concern of failure. In fact, fear of failure is the beginning of failure.

7 - Spending money unwisely

Inability to manage money and good saving, it is one of the most common problems. The most important cause is spending  money without planning which leads in the end to have a negative impact on all aspects of your life.

8- Wasting a lot of time

As we said in point 2 (self-discipline), if you're wasting your time doing things that you think are fun, but they really do not contribute positively in your life or your future,  you put yourself up for failure. Instead, develop yourself by reading, writing and learning a new sport or hobby, in order to take a step towards a better future.

9 - You have dreams without planning

It is great to have a passion for something, but more importantly, that does not remain a dream just an idea in your mind, if you do not have a plan for how to get to what you want, do not even bother starting, before starting know how can you reach it.